off-registry bridal shower gifts

When it comes to bridal showers, I always play it safe buy something off the bridal registry...but sometimes I just want to be bad and shop *gasp* off registry.  If I ever dare to shop off registry, here are some things I like to buy.  These are also great for non-naughty (nice?) bachelorette party gifts.

A customized hanger for the special day.  Cute and practical. $18, etsy

Miss Now Mrs is an easy way to change your name after saying "I do.", $30, missnowmrs.com

Luggage tag.  I've always wanted this, so I'm hoping when my day comes, someone will buy this (and the matching passport holder) for me. $75, Tiffany & Co.

A ring holder.  If you're going to buy crystal, you can never go wrong with Waterford, but this Kate Spade one is especially lovely.  $40, Macys.

etiquette tip

Etiquette is a set of rules that can only be observed, not enforced.  Because of this, it's one of the easiest ways to be fancy.  I'll share some of the rules I try to observe, just to spread the fanciness.

When addressing a newly-engaged couple, "congratulations" is said to the man and "best wishes" is said to the woman.  The reasoning is the man has successfully worked to woo (trick?) the woman into being his wife and therefore deserves the "congratulations."  If the couple is of the same sex, both "congratulations" and "best wishes" can be given to either party.